There are many aspects of living with any cancer. Everyone responds differently and there is no right or wrong way to feel. You may feel angry, confused, bitter, sad, or determined. Once treatment starts, feelings of confusion, helplessness, or being in control may change or become stronger.
There are many things you can do to help you take control of your life. Eating right, learning about the beneficial effects of antioxidants such as those in tea, red wine, getting appropriate exercise, and choosing a style of yoga to relax
more effectively and maybe even meditate, will all help you cope better with fatigue, pain, and depression.
The level and type of support you will need, and how you will feel about that support, will change over time as your health condition changes with the disease. Ask for help if you need it, even if you're not sure what kind of help you need. Know your health care team and their role in your recovery.
Unfortunately, results of treatment are not always what we hoped for. The cancer may be too advanced or aggressive, or treatment may not work for some other reason. Pain can be effectively managed but it's important to know how to describe your pain and to know what options are available.
For some people with advanced lung cancer, living with cancer means facing some tough decisions about palliative care. While it's hard not to dwell on negative thoughts, it's important to be realistic and deal with your future in a way that's productive for you.